In His Own Words
About him
I love learning new things, reading, and exploring. I love outdoor activities such as hiking, kayaking, nordic skiing, snowshoeing, landscape photography, target shooting, and archery. Friends describe me as easy to get along with and fun, but I'd add that I'm an introvert at heart and love spending a fair amount of quiet time. I learned Chinese martial arts in my teens and twenties, and I've continued to practice Qigong. I've also meditated for many years.
About his ideal match
Mostly, I'd love to find a woman with whom I could share my passions, as I'd love her to share her passions with me. I definitely wouldn't expect that she'd love all the same things I do; I'm not necessarily looking for someone that much like me. I'm not set in my ways and love to shake things up in my life, so I would expect the ideal woman to bring new ideas and activities into my life and to our relationship. I'd also dearly love us to be able to have intelligent and far-ranging conversations together, sharing ideas, philosophies, metaphysical musings, etc. And perhaps the icing on the cake would be an intense physical relationship, which is always a good thing!
I should mention that music specifically (and art in general) has remained central to my life. While I certainly don't require it, my ideal match would have some deep appreciation for art of any kind. In my personal philosophy, kindness, compassion, and art represent humanity at its best.
To be brutally honest, friends often describe me as "an incurable romantic." I'm not sure how I feel about that, as it sounds like I have a chronic disease. To me, being a romantic is a positive thing: I believe in the magic and synchronicity that's possible when two like-minded and like-spirited people come together in an honest and openhearted way. And maybe I'm somewhat old-fashioned in that regard. After all, I happen to absolutely love Jane Austen novels (yes, believe it or not, there are men who do!).
And I was raised in a European family in which manners, particularly with regard to being respectful to others, was vitally important. (My mother was from an aristocratic family.) At the same time, I was taught not to follow anything blindly, but to question everything then draw my own conclusions. So hopefully all this has been balanced out in me in some fashion and not resulted in utter confusion. ;-)
What His Friends Say
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About him
Country of origin: |
United States | |
Location: |
Rutland, Vermont | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
70 | |
Height: |
6' 3" (191cm) | |
Body type: |
Athletic | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair colour: |
Blonde | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Occasionally | |
Drinking: |
Several times a week | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Arts / Music / Writing | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Italian; Polish; Other | |
Religion: |
Buddhist / Taoist |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Europe; Canada; Greenland; St. Pierre & Miquelon; United States; Australia; New Zealand | ||
Location: |
North America; Europe; Antarctica | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
40 - 65 | ||
Height: |
5' 2" (157cm) - 6' 3" (191cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Other | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black | ||
Eye colour: |
Blue; Blue-Green; Brown; Green; Hazel | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want children: |
No; Maybe | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never; Occasionally | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally | ||
Education: |
University / College student; Further education; University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; Indian; Native American; White/Caucasian; Mixed | ||
Home language: |
English; Afrikaans; Chinese; Danish; Dutch; Farsi/Persian; Finnish; French; Gaelic / Irish; German; Hebrew; Italian; Japanese; Korean; Norwegian; Polish; Russian; Spanish; Swedish; Welsh | ||
Other languages: |
English; Chinese; Danish; Dutch; Finnish; French; Gaelic / Irish; German; Greek; Hebrew; Hindi; Italian; Japanese; Korean; Norwegian; Polish; Portuguese; Russian; Spanish; Swedish; Welsh | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Irreverent |
Intelligence: |
Rocket Scientist |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Cautious; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Philosophical; Quiet; Realistic; Shy; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Devotion; Faithfulness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness |
Fashion sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite colour: |
Blue |
Is the glass half full or half empty: |
Half full |
Hair style: |
Short; Disappearing |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Facial hair: |
I have a goatee |
Body hair: |
Average |
Body art: |
Pierced ears |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Classical; Electronic Dance Music; Instrumental; Jazz; Rock; World |
Reading: |
I read books regularly |
Books: |
Fantasy; Fiction; History; Mystery; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology; Travel |
TV habits: |
I tend to watch cultural programmes |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Nature/Wildlife; Sci-Fi; Sport |
Movie frequency: |
I wait for movies to come out on DVD or online. |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Art Films; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Independent; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Acting; Healthy living; Internet; Meditation; Music; Photography; Reading; Singing; The arts; Voluntary work; Woodwork |
Sport involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Archery; Athletics; Camping; Curling; Cycling; Fencing; Flying / Gliding; Football (Soccer); Hiking; Horse Riding; Martial arts; Orienteering; Polo; Rock climbing; Rowing; Shooting; Skiing; Surf skiing/kayaking; Swimming; Table Tennis; Tennis; Volleyball; Walking; Water Polo; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I cook rather than starve |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fine Dining; French; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at work: |
I work at home |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Time online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Family size: |
I'm an only child |
Family contact: |
I rarely see them |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Intelligence; Showing affection in public |
Turn-offs: |
Thrill seeking |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Dream home: |
In the mountains |
Religious attendance: |
Doesn't apply |
Politics: |
Anarchic |
Retirement plans: |
Pursuing a sport or hobby |
Feelings about using Science Lovers: |
Nervous |
Honesty: |
Extremely |