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mcavity

71 – Barnet (Hendon), London, England

Insightful man seeks insightful questioning woman

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Online: More than 6 months ago

Modified: More than 6 months ago

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About him

Country of origin:
United Kingdom
Location:
Barnet (Hendon), London, England
Gender:
Male
Age:
71
Height:
5' 10" (178cm)
Body type:
A few extra pounds
Looks:
Average
Hair colour:
Greying
Eye colour:
Blue
Relationship Status:
Widowed
Looking for:
A long-term relationship; Marriage
Have children:
No
Want children:
Maybe
Daily diet:
Eat healthily
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Occasionally
Education:
Postgraduate
Occupation:
Teaching / Education / Training
Income:
Solvent
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home language:
Ask me later
Other languages:
English
Religion:
Ask me later

About his ideal match

Country of origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Within 10 miles of postcode district NW4 (London)
Gender:
Female
Age range:
45 - 70
Height:
4' 7" (140cm) or shorter - 6' 0" (184cm)
Body type:
Average; A few extra pounds; Disabled; Curvaceous; Full figured
Looks:
Any
Hair colour:
Any
Eye colour:
Any
Has a photo:
Slightly important
Relationship Status:
Any
Have children:
No; Yes, not living with me
Want children:
Maybe
Daily diet:
Eat healthily
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Occasionally
Education:
University / College student; University; Postgraduate
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Struggling; Solvent; Enough; Comfortable
Ethnicity:
Asian; Indian; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian
Home language:
English
Other languages:
English
Religion:
Any
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In His Own Words

About him

At 63 I know myself pretty well and have sorted most of my teenage and other conflicts. I am able to empathise and seek a warm understanding sexual partner.

I notice a woman's looks but they are are secondary to my central aim of attunement and closeness.


I am able to listen to the difficulties of another person. Am fairly indoor person, so a physical disability in the other person need not be a problem.

Am a fairly quiet person who doesn't like loud music.

About his ideal match

She should ideally be insightful, reflective and able to think. Someone who appreciated irony, without being sunk in cynicism.

She should not put much stress on her appearance; I don't put much stress on this. I am bored by all the stress on slimness.

She should not expect me to support her - am not a good meal ticket.

Easier if she did not have children living with her, or not have children at all.

Most likely best if she were left of centre politically. Best not a militant Conservative.

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More about him

Personality
Sense of humour:
Irreverent
Intelligence:
Highbrow
Ruled by:
Happiness
Party behaviour:
An average mingler
Personality traits:
Daring; Faithful; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outspoken; Quiet; Realistic; Sensible; Thoughtful; Trustworthy
Valued qualities:
Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Moderation; Patience; Tolerance
Fashion sense:
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels)
Favourite clothing:
Shorts & a T-shirt
Favourite colour:
Gold
Is the glass half full or half empty:
Half full
More physical characteristics
Hair style:
Medium
Facial hair:
I'm clean-shaven
Body hair:
Hairy
Body art:
I don't have any
Leisure & entertainment
Date activities:
Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Going for a walk
Music preferences:
Folk
Reading:
I read books regularly
Books:
History; Religious; Science / Technology
TV programmes:
Cartoons; Documentaries; Educational
Movie preferences:
Art Films; Documentary
Interests:
Cooking; Healthy living; Politics; Voluntary work; Writing books
Sport involvement:
Not involved at all
Sports:
Chess; Table Tennis
Food
Cooking:
I quite like cooking
Food:
Greek; Indian
Go Out to Eat:
I only eat out on special occasions
More lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Organised
Time at work:
I work part-time
Pastimes of choice:
Reading a book
Time online:
I'm on several hours a day
Family size:
I've got a brother and a sister
Family contact:
I rarely see them
Willing to Relocate:
I'd consider it
Likes & dislikes
Animals:
I like them at the zoo
Pets (Like):
Cat(s)
Pets (Dislike):
Bird(s); Dog(s); Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Horse(s)
Turn-ons:
Assertiveness; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public
Turn-offs:
Body piercing(s); Sarcasm; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking
The deep stuff
Work aspirations:
I already have my ideal job
Dream home:
In the city
Religious attendance:
Only on religious holidays
Politics:
Labour
Retirement plans:
Finally writing that novel
Feelings about using Science Lovers:
Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic; Excited