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jdf123

66 – Alameda, California, United States

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jdf123

66 – Alameda, California, United States

Writer widower wants witty, warmhearted, wise, waggish woman

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In His Own Words

About him

If you like what you see, then what's not to like? I'm very entertaining, and you'll laugh a lot. I'm well-trained; I know how to be in a loving, supportive, long-term relationship. But there's still room for you to train me some more.

What's more, your superior intellect will be respected and admired. Your expansive heart and compassion will be cherished. And your independence, strength, and achievements will be nourished and deeply appreciated.

Though I am a sports fan, invariably I'll prefer an outing with you over watching the game. I love sharing interests and activities, and in fact there's very little I'm not interested in or curious about (although I'm not much into textiles, now that I think about it). I can be passive, but when you need me the most I will not let you down. I'll pick up your Aunt Tillie at the airport at midnight, and I'll do my best to make your friends and family members feel welcome in my/our home. You won't have to worry about being controlled or belittled or invalidated. But you also don't have to worry about constantly having to take care of me; I'm pretty self-sufficient.

I'm a wonderful travel companion. I eat very healthily, so if you ever watch what you eat I won't sabotage you. I like to cuddle. I'm financially stable. I work in high-tech with a growing company

And you'll laugh a lot. I know I said that before, but it bears repeating.

And I can provide references.

About his ideal match

There is no such thing as an ideal match -- not between two human beings, anyway. In no particular order, here are my initial thoughts on what could prompt us to connect:


* The two most alluring organs in a woman's body are the brain and the heart.
* It's equally important that you care for yourself -- emotionally and physically -- as it is that you come to care for me.
* You love animals.
* You love to laugh.
* You're creative.
* You have an expansive world view.
* You are accomplished. Sure, this could mean you've won a Pulitzer or endowed a library. But it could also mean you've saved people's lives as a teacher or a volunteer or a first responder, or you're well-respected in your field, or simply that you've done a a gfeat many things
* You like going out and/or traveling.

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About him

Country of origin:
United States
Location:
Alameda, California, United States
Gender:
Male
Age:
66
Height:
5' 5" (165cm)
Body type:
Slim
Looks:
Attractive
Hair colour:
Dark Blonde
Eye colour:
Hazel
Relationship Status:
Widowed
Looking for:
Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship; Something casual
Have children:
No
Want children:
Ask me later
Daily diet:
Eat healthily
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Occasionally
Education:
University
Occupation:
Other
Income:
Comfortable
Ethnicity:
Ask me later
Home language:
English
Other languages:
None
Religion:
Jewish

About his ideal match

Country of origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Anywhere in California, United States
Gender:
Female
Age range:
35 - 54
Height:
Any
Body type:
Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous
Looks:
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive
Hair colour:
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black; Changes Often; Greying
Eye colour:
Any
Has a photo:
Decidedly important
Relationship Status:
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed
Have children:
Any
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Eat healthily
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Never; Occasionally; Several times a week
Education:
Further education; University; Postgraduate
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy
Ethnicity:
Any
Home language:
Any
Other languages:
Any
Religion:
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious; Other
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

More about him

Personality
Sense of humour:
Witty
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Personality traits:
Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loyal; Optimistic; Outgoing; Quiet; Stable; Trustworthy
Valued qualities:
Compassion; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Tolerance
Is the glass half full or half empty:
Depends what's in it
More physical characteristics
Hair style:
Medium; Straight; It has its moods
Facial hair:
I'm clean-shaven
Body hair:
Smooth
Body art:
I don't have any
Leisure & entertainment
Date activities:
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk
Music preferences:
Blues; Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Jazz; Opera; Rock
Reading:
I read newspapers regularly; I read books occasionally; I read magazines occasionally
Books:
Best-sellers; Business; Crime; Fiction; Horror; Non-fiction; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology; Self-help
TV habits:
I watch television most days
TV programmes:
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Sci-Fi; Sport
Movie preferences:
Action; Art Films; Black & White / Silent; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Horror; Independent; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi; War; Westerns
Interests:
Board games; Business news; Computer & video games; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Internet; Investing; Meditation; Music; Painting; Singing; The arts; Voluntary work; Writing books
Sport involvement:
Watching from the couch
Sports:
American Football; Backgammon; Baseball; Basketball; Birdwatching; Curling; Hiking; Pool; Sky diving; Snorkeling; Table Tennis; Volleyball; Walking; White water rafting
Food
Cooking:
I cook rather than starve
Food:
Chinese; French; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese
Go Out to Eat:
I eat out a few times a week
More lifestyle
Time at work:
I work a standard 40 hour week
Pastimes of choice:
Socialising with friends
Time online:
I'm on several hours a day
Family size:
I've got a sister
Family contact:
I rarely see them
Relationship Type:
I'm just plain single
Willing to Relocate:
I'd consider it
Likes & dislikes
Animals:
I like animals
Pets (Have):
Dog(s)
Pets (Like):
Cat(s); Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Horse(s)
Turn-ons:
Assertiveness; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence
Turn-offs:
Body piercing(s); Showing affection in public; Power; Tattoo(s)
The deep stuff
Work aspirations:
Find new, more meaningful work
Religious attendance:
Rarely
Politics:
Liberal
Feelings about using Science Lovers:
Nervous; Hopeful; Curious
Honesty:
Very