About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Ely, Cambridgeshire, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
68 | |
Height: |
5' 10" (178cm) | |
Body type: |
Athletic | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair colour: |
Shaved | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Marriage | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Regularly | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Teaching / Education / Training | |
Income: |
Struggling | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
Ask me later | |
Other languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Buddhist / Taoist |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in Europe | ||
Location: |
Within 100 miles of postcode district CB6 (Ely) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
48 - 65 | ||
Height: |
5' 4" (162cm) - 6' 2" (189cm) | ||
Body type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Spiritual, but not religious |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
In His Own Words
About him
Ex Outdoor Pursuits Instructor with degrees in Psychology, practising Daoist, published author, long term student of Chinese Internal Martial Arts - Taijiquan, Xingyiquan & Baguazhang - , Chinese Traditional Medicine and Philosophy. Interested in reconciling traditional Chinese thought and praxis with Western science through mathematics, information theory, cybernetics and system theory. Not a flake! Or a 'crystal hugging, patchouli soaked, New Age hippy'! Rigorous and open minded.
Enjoy music of many kinds plus alternative fiction, sf & f, computer games, film, video and live theatre. Looking for stimulating multifaceted and multi disciplinary wide ranging conversations and interactions. Not averse to sexual relations within a stable relationship but consider friendship and stimulating relationships much more important than mere sexual gratification - not that I don't enjoy the latter :-) Little that I can't cope with but selective in what I choose to enjoy and pursue. Always open to the necessity of learning as required.
About his ideal match
My idea is almost certainly a fantasy and so I am prepared to be fairly flexible. Ideally the abundance of male secondary sexual characteristics is strongly preferred so any intelligent gorillas are most welcome.
Shared interests would be nice. More important would be mutual acceptance and respect of interests.
A positive and open approach to life in all its variety.
Open to the possibility of a mutually satisfying long term relationship.
I have no idea of a perfect date other than we should both enjoy it and each other's company.
What His Friends Say
Njdao hasn't asked any friends to write a recommendation yet.
More about him
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Confident; Easygoing; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken; Philosophical; Realistic; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Is the glass half full or half empty: |
Half full |
Hair style: |
Disappearing |
Facial hair: |
I have a goatee |
Body hair: |
Hairy |
Body art: |
Several tattoos |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Classical; Electronic Dance Music; Folk; Instrumental; Jazz; New Age; Reggae; World |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read magazines regularly |
Books: |
Fantasy; Fiction; History; Non-fiction; Religious; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Cartoons; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Nature/Wildlife; News; Sci-Fi |
Movie frequency: |
Once or twice a month |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Art Films; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Mystery; Sci-Fi; War; Westerns |
Interests: |
Computer & video games; Cooking; Healthy living; Internet; Meditation; Painting; Photography; Reading; Writing books |
Sports: |
Backgammon; Martial arts; Rock climbing; Weight training; Wrestling |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; French; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Family size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s); Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Intelligence; Tattoo(s) |
Turn-offs: |
Long hair; Sarcasm |
Religious attendance: |
Doesn't apply |
Politics: |
Green |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
