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CarpeDiem42

64 – Epsom & Ewell (Stoneleigh), Surrey, England

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CarpeDiem42

64 – Epsom & Ewell (Stoneleigh), Surrey, England

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In His Own Words

About him

There I was, checking my email and wondering why so many dodgy businessmen seem to hold me in such high esteem, when an email landed in my inbox advertising an online matchmaker system.

Eureka as some old Greek bloke once said - Just what I'm looking for

Happily divorced, and no longer bearing the scars, I felt it was time to get on with my life - In fact I was nearly arrested for baring them in WH Smith last year - They'll never print the photos in Boots!

But, I digress. There I've admitted it. I DO digress. I've told you now and I'm glad I told you. Glad!!!

After a quick rummage through the more obscure recesses of my brain (there's nothing like a good rummage to set you up for the day), I decided to fill in my profile.

But seriously folks..................

I'm 64, divorced with two grown up daughters. All original parts (with one exception and I'll leave you to guess which).

I like to think I've got a warm personality, hence the infra-red portrait.

I'm fairly young at heart - Happy to head to the cinema to see the latest Pixar or to climb on board a roller coaster, the higher and faster the better.

Work wise I started out as a research physicist, moved into systems engineering and ended up in Business Development.

I enjoy travelling and I've been to well over 20 countries so far.

I like most genres of music, rock, classical, country, opera, jazz, soul and even the odd bit of reggae.

So if you're interested in saying hi, or even meeting up, please drop me a line (sound effect of a descending whistle followed by a spash), send me a carrier aardvark or a message via the website.

(Why aardvark I hear you ask - Well, they're very friendly creatures. As the old saying goes, Aardvarks never killed anybody)

Gotta go.

My best to you and yours
My second best to them and theirs
The rest to be divided amongst the needy of Surrey

I remain, at least until I can escape,

Madame Oldroyd's Home for the Incurably Optimistic
Epsom

About his ideal match

How would I describe my ideal partner...........?

Attraction is a bit like fine art - Very difficult to define but easy to recognise.

I'd like to meet someone roughly the same age as me, give or take a few years. Ideally someone young at heart who doesn't take life too seriously.

Someone intelligent and open minded, although that doesn't necessarily mean highly educated. Someone who can think for herself rather than follow the crowd. They say a mind is like a parachute - It doesn't work properly unless it's open. If you can look at a sunset and simultaneously admire its beauty and wonder why it's red rather than any other colour then we probably think in similar ways. If you know why it's red even better.

Someone normal looking - You don't have to be drop dead gorgeous as a lot of beauty comes from within. A nice smile and a friendly personality goes a long way. Having said that if you are drop dead gorgeous that certainly doesn't exclude you.

Someone who could appreciate my cooking. I'd never win Masterchef but my roast potatoes are legendary, my yorkies always rise and I can knock up a pretty good cake. It's no fun cooking for one.

They say the eyes are the windows of the soul, and nice eyes are a bonus. Double glazing is ok.

A good sense of humour is essential, especially if it's a bit crazy like mine. If you appreciate Monty Python, The Darwin Awards, Steven Wright, The Marx Brothers, The Far Side, The Hitch Hikers Guide to The Galaxy and The Goons then we should end up laughing at similar things.

I’m a romantic with a soft centre and my dream would be to find romance and someone to walk off hand in hand into the sunset with.

What His Friends Say

Susan said...

Tony has been my best friend for over forty years, the most loyal and faithful friend who will always stand by you. He is very caring with a big heart. Tough but with a soft centre. Young at heart but a post grad of the University of Life. Charming with a great sense of humour, as you may have noticed from his profile. An open-minded eternal optimist he always looks on the bright side of life. He is very practical and has been known to tackle all sorts of DIY jobs, often making it up as he goes along but always ending up with a great result. Tony is someone you would be lucky to have in your life.

About him

Country of origin:
United Kingdom
Location:
Epsom & Ewell (Stoneleigh), Surrey, England
Gender:
Male
Age:
64
Height:
6' 0" (183cm)
Body type:
A few extra pounds
Looks:
Average
Hair colour:
Greying
Eye colour:
Blue
Relationship Status:
Divorced
Looking for:
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship; Marriage
Have children:
Yes, not living with me
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Eat most things
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Occasionally
Education:
Postgraduate
Occupation:
Sales / Marketing
Income:
Comfortable
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home language:
English
Other languages:
Ask me later
Religion:
Atheist

About his ideal match

Country of origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Within 60 miles of postcode district KT17 (Epsom)
Gender:
Female
Age range:
54 - 65
Height:
5' 3" (159cm) - 6' 0" (184cm)
Body type:
Slim; Average; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous
Looks:
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive
Hair colour:
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black; Changes Often; Greying; Grey; Other
Eye colour:
Any
Has a photo:
Non-negotiable
Relationship Status:
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed
Have children:
Any
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Eat most things; Eat healthily
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Occasionally; Several times a week
Education:
Any
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy
Ethnicity:
Any
Home language:
Any
Other languages:
Any
Religion:
Agnostic; Atheist; Spiritual, but not religious
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

More about him

Personality
Sense of humour:
Witty
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
The heart
Party behaviour:
An average mingler
Personality traits:
Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outspoken; Philosophical; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy
Valued qualities:
Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Sexiness; Tolerance
Fashion sense:
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans)
Favourite clothing:
My trusty pair of jeans
Favourite colour:
Blue
Is the glass half full or half empty:
Depends what's in it
More physical characteristics
Hair style:
Medium
Eyesight:
I wear glasses
Facial hair:
I'm clean-shaven
Body hair:
Hairy
Body art:
I don't have any
Leisure & entertainment
Date activities:
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum
Music preferences:
Classical; Country & Western; Folk; Heavy Metal; Instrumental; Jazz; Opera; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Rock
Reading:
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly; I read magazines regularly
Books:
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Fiction; Horror; Non-fiction; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology; Travel
TV habits:
I rarely watch television
TV programmes:
Action / Adventure; Cartoons; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Movie Channels; Nature/Wildlife; News; Sci-Fi
Movie frequency:
Occasionally or irregularly
Movie preferences:
Action; Adult; Black & White / Silent; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Horror; Sci-Fi
Interests:
Board games; Cooking; Gardening; Internet; Music; Photography; Reading; Shopping; The arts; Woodwork
Sport involvement:
Watching from the couch
Food
Cooking:
I really enjoy cooking
Food:
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fast food; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Pub Grub; Seafood; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese
Go Out to Eat:
I eat out a few times a month
Dietary Restrictions:
I have none
More lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Go with the flow
Time at work:
I work a standard 40 hour week
Pastimes of choice:
Pursuing a hobby
Time online:
I'm on several hours a day
Family size:
I'm an only child
Family contact:
I see them when I can
Relationship Type:
I'm just plain single
Willing to Relocate:
I'm unlikely to move
Likes & dislikes
Animals:
I like animals
Pets (Like):
Cat(s); Dog(s); Fish; Other; Horse(s)
Pets (Dislike):
Bird(s); Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s)
Turn-ons:
Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Thrill seeking; Wealth
Turn-offs:
Body piercing(s); Dancing; Sarcasm; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s)
The deep stuff
Work aspirations:
Work fewer hours
Dream home:
House in the suburbs
Religious attendance:
Never
Politics:
Right of centre
Retirement plans:
Enjoying the comforts of home
Feelings about using Science Lovers:
Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic; Excited
Honesty:
Extremely