In His Own Words
About him
Honestly, they probably shouldn’t. I have an extremely diverse background – took a huge variety of liberal arts courses but my major was religion. Now, take a moment and ignore every thought you’ve just had,
While I did study the Judeo-Chistian traditons pretty extensively, my main interest was Mahayana Buddhism. That was invaluable since it showed me that while rational thought has its value, it is as limiting as a straight jacket or blinders. Unfortunately, there’s no way to explain that to anyone unless they already understand.
That’s just one example of the many contradictions and inconsistencies which are what gradually allow you into a very,very different mindset.
Just so I don’t truncate my exposition there, I’ll just mention that I have two graduate degrees – Juris Doctor and an MBA, mostly in finance. I also belong to Mensa but I did that mainly for the additional intellectual bona fides. It’s something that really shouldn’t be taken very seriously.
About his ideal match
I have no earthly idea. I suspect that if I could actually do that and with some level of accuracy, my next thought would be that something, somewhere, must be very wrong.
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About him
Country of origin: |
United States | |
Location: |
New Brunswick (Piscataway), New Jersey | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
59 | |
Height: |
5' 11" (180cm) | |
Body type: |
Athletic | |
Looks: |
Very Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Auburn | |
Eye colour: |
Ask me later | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Marriage; Something casual | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Retired | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
Ask me later | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
None | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
38 - 63 | ||
Height: |
4' 10" (147cm) - 5' 9" (176cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Other | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Auburn; Greying; Other | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily; Vegetarian | ||
Smoking: |
Occasionally; E-cigarette User | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally | ||
Education: |
University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Legal; Medical / Dental / Veterinary; Retired; Self-employed; Science / Engineering / Research; IT / Telecoms | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; Indian; Middle Eastern; Pacific Islander; White/Caucasian; Other; Mixed | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Hindu; Spiritual, but not religious; Other |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Obscure |
Intelligence: |
Rocket Scientist |
Ruled by: |
Happiness |
Party behaviour: |
A wallflower |
Personality traits: |
Cautious; Confident; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Quiet; Realistic; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite clothing: |
Anything, as long as it's black |
Is the glass half full or half empty: |
What glass? |
Hair style: |
Straight; Well-behaved |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Body hair: |
Light |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Meeting for coffee; Going for a walk |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; New Age; Rock; World |
Books: |
History; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Documentaries; Educational; News; Sci-Fi |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Cult Classics; Documentary; Mystery; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Board games; Business news; Healthy living; Internet; Investing; Reading; Shopping; Voluntary work |
Sports: |
American Football; Backgammon; Body building; Bowling; Cycling; Dance; Softball; Walking; Weight training |
Cooking: |
I can't or won't cook |
Food: |
Chinese; Doesn't matter; Fast food; Italian; Japanese; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a week |
Pace of Life: |
Chilled |
Time at work: |
I'm retired |
Pastimes of choice: |
Napping |
Family size: |
I'm an only child |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Flirting; Tattoo(s) |
Dream home: |
Other |
Religious attendance: |
Never |
Politics: |
Liberal |
Feelings about using Science Lovers: |
Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Very |





