In Her Own Words
About her
For any number of reasons that might light a spark within you when you read them? I'm passionate but level headed. I'm grown up yet young at heart. I'm an Empath who loves to care. I love to talk as much as I love to listen. I miss good conversation. I daydream but am learning to keep my feet on the ground. I'm a glass half full person but I the hardships of life can still get me down. I'm often too independent as a result of the life I've lead but am searching for that one man who will want to take care of me. I've travelled the world alone, with dreadlocks and a kombi van for most of my 20's yet was never lonely. Only now when I reflect on my travels, it would be nice to have someone to share them with in future. I'm a combination of European heritage with elements of African sarcasm and German hospitality but I'm no snob or elitist. My friends would say I'm a hopeless romantic and that I'm playful, curious, adventurous, kind, honest, sensitive, real. Oh... and tall. I gym 4 times a week so I can drink beer and eat cake without guilt. Just started rock climbing and learned I have chicken wings for arms (must work on that). I've been known to fall asleep in front of the TV but would never install one in my bedroom. Early to bed, early to rise, and often with a book still firmly gripped in my hand. I am great at my job managing others and solving problems, yet I still dream of what I want to be when I grow up and have recently started teaching myself science and LOVING IT! I might take a while to start something, but when I do, I dont do it by half. I can sometimes be a bit of a perfectionist. However, I dont believe that anyone is perfect, but I do believe that life is a long journey of self improvement. Any expectations I hold of others are no more than I am willing to give of myself. I love laughing, learning, exploring, new people & cultures, music, museums, galleries, restaurants, dinner parties, picnics, drives, travel, reading, cooking, movies, TEDTalks, swimming, kissing and enjoying the little things.
About her ideal match
I'm not looking for perfection, just a man who is perfectly imperfect for me. Someone for a partnership. My big spoon & best friend who'll laugh at my bad jokes. Someone who sees me in the morning but still thinks I'm cute (too much?). Someone who's bad habits I'll fall in love with. A tall, mature man but kid at heart. Someone who can teach me new things and can show patience. Someone who keeps fit but enjoys eating. Someone ambitious but modest. Someone intelligent and talkative who isn't afraid to be quirky or goofy. Someone who is passionate, who knows what he wants & isn't scared to tell me.
I'd love to come home to someone to share the stories of the day. Or get excited with while planning an adventure. Someone to sit quietly with on a Sunday morning with a coffee while we read NewScientist (and someone who won't get annoyed with all my questions! ;) Someone to talk about our future together with, who'll be just as excited as me.
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About her
Country of origin: |
Namibia | |
Location: |
Brisbane (New Farm), Queensland, Australia | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
45 | |
Height: |
180cm (5' 10.9") | |
Body type: |
Athletic | |
Looks: |
Ask me later | |
Hair colour: |
Light Brown | |
Eye colour: |
Blue-Green | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
Maybe | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Further education | |
Occupation: |
Administrative / Secretarial | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
German | |
Religion: |
Atheist |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Brisbane (Queensland, Australia) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
35 - 42 | ||
Height: |
180cm (5' 10.9") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
No | ||
Want children: |
Any | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian; Mixed | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Goofy |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Ambitious; Cautious; Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken; Realistic; Sarcastic; Sensible; Shy; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness |
Fashion sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Is the glass half full or half empty: |
Half full |
Hair style: |
Medium; Straight |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Classical; Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Folk; Heavy Metal; Instrumental; Latin; New Age; Opera; Punk; Rap / Hip Hop; Reggae; Rock; World |
Reading: |
I read books regularly |
Books: |
Crime; Fantasy; Fiction; Mystery; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology; Travel |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Movie Channels; Nature/Wildlife; News; Sci-Fi |
Movie frequency: |
Once or twice a month |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Art Films; Black & White / Silent; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi; War; Westerns |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Music; Politics; Reading; The arts |
Sport involvement: |
Not involved at all |
Sports: |
Bowls; Rock climbing; Rowing; Running; Swimming |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; French; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Taking a class |
Time online: |
I check in once a day |
Family size: |
I've got a brother |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Dog(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Sarcasm |
Turn-offs: |
Power |
Work aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Dream home: |
In the city |
Religious attendance: |
Never |
Politics: |
Green |
Retirement plans: |
Finally writing that novel |
Feelings about using Science Lovers: |
Hopeful; Curious |
Honesty: |
Extremely |