In Her Own Words
About her
I'm a slightly quirky character with a surreal and somewhat odd sense of humour, I can find the funny in most things and love to laugh.
Not your average 'girl', I'm a 'casualty' of the rave generation and my natural habitat was once the fields of music festivals, having those 4am talks about life the universe and everything and watching the sun come up. I can sometimes still be found there, but these days it's a camper van rather than a tent... the philosophical deliberations haven't changed though!
I can be a bit of a handful as I am strong-minded and I know myself well, considering myself to be a work in progress - "the unexamined life is not worth living".
With lifelong passions for psychology, philosophy and science/tech/IT in general, I am not for the faint-hearted and not everyone's cup of tea, but if you fancy an intellectual and mental challenge, I'm your girl ;)
About her ideal match
If you like a good-natured battle of wits during which both participants have to 'up their game' and get their brains working, it's a very good start!
I have an adventurous streak that I'd like to share with my partner, so someone with an enthusiastic outlook and passion for life would be ideal. My ideal partner would be someone who knows themselves well and is willing to work at the relationship and create a free, non-judgemental environment where both parties can grow and evolve without feeling the need to hide from one another.
Lies, deceit and deception of any kind would be a deal-breaker: all relationships must be founded on honesty, respect and kindness. The relationship to create would be one where it is safe for both people to drop the required 'social masks' for dealing with the world at large. An atmosphere of personal freedom, peace, calm, low drama, no judgement, no nagging and no criticism seems like a reasonable ideal to strive for initially... :) The rest can be worked out along the way... :)
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Eastleigh, Hampshire, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
55 | |
Height: |
5' 0" (152cm) | |
Body type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Auburn | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Friends; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship; Marriage | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Regularly | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
University / College student | |
Occupation: |
Other | |
Income: |
Ask me later | |
Ethnicity: |
Ask me later | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Atheist |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | ||
Location: |
Southampton (England, United Kingdom) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
39 - 46 | ||
Height: |
6' 0" (182cm) - 6' 4" (194cm) | ||
Body type: |
Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | ||
Smoking: |
Regularly | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally | ||
Education: |
University / College student | ||
Occupation: |
Executive / Management; Legal; Medical / Dental / Veterinary; Self-employed; Teaching / Education / Training; Science / Engineering / Research; IT / Telecoms | ||
Income: |
Enough | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Spiritual, but not religious |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Irreverent |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
Happiness |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Ambitious; Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken; Philosophical; Quiet; Realistic; Sarcastic; Sensible; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite colour: |
Blue |
Is the glass half full or half empty: |
Depends what's in it |
Hair style: |
Long; It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Body art: |
Pierced ears; Navel ring; A tattoo or two |
Date activities: |
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Going out dancing; Meeting for coffee |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Classical; Electronic Dance Music; Heavy Metal; Instrumental; Jazz; Punk; Reggae; Rock; World |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers occasionally; I read magazines occasionally |
Books: |
Fantasy; Fiction; History; Horror; Mystery; Non-fiction; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology; Self-help |
TV habits: |
I watch television every day |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Dramas; Music Channels; Sci-Fi |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Adult; Comedy; Cult Classics; Drama; Horror; Independent; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Internet; Music; Reading |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
Archery; Athletics; Backgammon; Boxing; Bungee jumping; Camping; Cycling; Dance; Extreme sports; Fencing; Flying / Gliding; Gymnastics; Hang- / Paragliding; Horse Riding; Ice Skating; Mountain biking; Pool; Rock climbing; Rugby; Running; Shooting; Skiing; Sky diving; Snooker; Snowboarding; Surfing; Swimming; Tennis; Weight training; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Indian |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Pastimes of choice: |
Reading a book |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Family size: |
I've got a brother |
Family contact: |
I see them as often as possible |
Relationship Type: |
I'm seeing someone, but not exclusively |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Dog(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Other; Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Power; Sarcasm; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking |
Turn-offs: |
Long hair |
Work aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Dream home: |
On a beach |
Religious attendance: |
Doesn't apply |
Politics: |
Anarchic |
Retirement plans: |
Finally writing that novel |
Feelings about using Science Lovers: |
Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
